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It's been enough time since that whole coc debacle that I'm ready to kinda talk about it. Bear with me whilst I have some feeling at y'all.
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1: my anxiety about it went way on far longer than stuff lasted. I was very worried that I would be a social pariah in the iOS community.
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2: I got way more love and support than hate but the usual 1/5 negative/positive interactions applied. I felt the hate disproportionately.
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3: there were various people who I expected better from who were "neutral". I see you.
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4: it was quite scary to me how much I have planned for that kind of stuff. I hear this from other women too - this should worry all of us.
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5: this has re-enforced my belief that a CoC is a minimum requirement. Those who argue against them are often problematic in other ways.
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