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If a code of conduct seems to have some glaring omissions, ask which of their questionable friends they are protecting.
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Maybe don't ask it aloud. But know: that code of conduct is not there to include you. It's for plausible deniability whilst pandering.
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This is why I don't argue about codes of conduct anymore. If there's a bad one I want it left as a warning signal.
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Also I don't waste my time on people who don't want to listen.
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At this point if conf organizer doesn't know what a good CoC looks like and made sure theirs conforms, well they have chosen not to listen.