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Some days being a woman in tech is really horrible. Other days it's just exhausting.
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I don’t need to read this normalization of misogyny in the nytimes - I’ve spent most of my career dealing with it.
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When you read these things, remember a small number of men who say them publicly, name attached; a lot who think they should be heard out.
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Actually if we are going to talk about “fear” because of dissenting opinions I have some things to say about that.
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~2014 I was on a list of 👾🐊 targets. Ever since I have always know how I would disappear if necessary. I’ve lived like this for THREE YEARS.
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I have had men creepily stalk my online presence and make coded - and less coded - threats because I was doing my fucking job.
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I had a hit piece written on me because I pulled out of a conf without a code of conduct and objected to being used as advertising for it.
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So yeah, to see men using their real name in the NYT and talking about how afraid they are… fuck that noise. Fuck all of it.
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They don’t have a fucking clue.
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Some white dudes worry diminishing ~65% of population causes problems. Me: worry that doing my job makes people want to physically harm me.