December 2018 — 135 tweets
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DM’s open! Happy to hear from you and thanks :)
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I had a talk idea that I never got to give because I moved from managing ICs to managing managers too quickly, the working title was “the ethics of experimenting with other people’s careers”. When you run large organizations, you have the power to influence so many careers.
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💜 I’m glad you are happier now!
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Been a particularly rough few weeks in a particularly rough couple of months in the hell that has been 2018 aka probably the most stressful year of my life so far. Going to take a moment to celebrate some wins though, and I would love to hear yours (as always, DMs open).
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💜 fwiw what I got back emotionally was worth so much more than the money I walked away from, but I definitely get that it’s a factor, a hard decision to make, and a huge privilege to get to make it.
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I am worried that 🦝 is a compound of 🗑🐼, precious 🦝 deserve so much better and I deserve 280 🦝 damnit.
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Also reading this dragonfly thing and there’s something about secrecy and information control that is always always always a warning sign. Healthy teams have open communication. You might provide some anonymity (eg feedback surveys), but day to day operations are transparent.
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At work: - I love my peers in our eng org, the way we support each other and the conversations we have. - we are delivering some huge changes right now! It’s stressful but it’s AWESOME and I believe in what we’re doing. - my management column in quartz!! https://qz.com/author/cate-huston/…
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We are hiring data engineers @AutomatticEng
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James Acaster's teabag metaphor is the smartest thing anyone has ever said on Brexit.
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Having one of those weeks where I feel truly despondent about the level of dysfunction in tech. Like, it was all I talked about in therapy this evening.
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Someone else because if you fail to develop a functional leadership team you will ultimately fail in your job & be held accountable. But the harm to individuals is hard, maybe impossible, to undo. If the word gets out on back channels, it can make it hard to hire for a _while_.
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Why do I only have 140 🦝 I was promised 280 😭
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Look at dis beautiful energetic raccoon 🦝 showing you can do anything if you just believe in yourself, work hard, and are willing to risk falling from a great height 🦝🥰 https://x.com/hondvran/statu/hondvran/status/1068658207474638850…
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Finally, I can express myself fully 🥰 🦝🦝🦝🦝🦝🦝🦝🦝🦝🦝
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This time last year I swore I would never repeat meetup - WordCamp - meetup so this year I am doing... meetup - WordCamp - meetup - 🏥 And oh my god this was a terrible mistake I see it now I’m sorry future Cate...
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I had kinda a shitty day and someone made this sweet throwaway remark to me and seriously you never know whose day you are making by just being normal and nice.
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Aww you two 💜
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#mood
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"I'm very proud of you, you're a visionary." ~@elibud
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!! Hope you enjoy it, I was excited by how much of my inclusion list you had covered already!!
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"I wish I knew the extent of your raccoon love before I decided to like you" @kwonye
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“You have more patience than me.” @elibud
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Huge if true!!!
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Too real 😭 https://x.com/dantoml/status/dantoml/status/1071189862999621632…
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Team building / hiding with @elibud
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"I don't want to be murdered by a republican" "Well you're in the wrong place."
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I feel so judged rn.
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On the annual mobile leads meetup and if you had told us a year ago what we would consider problems today I don’t think we would have believed it. Amazing how far this team has come 🦝😍🥰💜 (Mainly without me, but that’s another story 😭)
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Me to new team: “you should know I hate Ariel and we should not use that font.” @chrisb33
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What podcasts do you listen to? What high profile blogs do you follow? Who are the influencers in your corner of the web? As always interested in diverse voices.
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"What is our API? If we have one I can tell you it's not very well designed." @nikolayb
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Thanks!!
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LOVE this post from Amanda on the @automattic
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What recruiters have you worked with that have been good? As always we are interested in hiring a representative sample of the population 🙃
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Omw to 🇲🇽 to learn how to be @nikolayb
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“Maybe when people are celebrating the pagan festival I can do some interviews.” @nikolayb
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Ahhh machine learning 🙃
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😍🦝 https://instagram.com/p/BrPtVVage7R/?utm_source=ig_share_sheet&igshid=ardcxzp2fgc4…
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Oh that is an AMAZING story! I love it!
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New team mate let me give him a skincare prescription and a sheetmask and so I am finally ready to say this is going well 😎
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Hasta la próxima 🇲🇽 💜✈️
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Day 6 in Mexico. We finally make it to the beach. I accidentally ordered hot chocolate. We are about to watch a strangers wedding. The string quartet is nice 🎻🏖
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Love this from my bff @mnowster
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Doctor: “we need to address the root cause of your anxiety” Me: “are you going to dismantle the patriarchy?”
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I've been off Twitter for sometime, so I missed the fact that a particularly well-known tech feminist (Val) had been banned from a feminst hackerspace (Double Union). In her blog post, she argues that non-binary people face less discrimination than women. https://web.archive.org/web/20181119092034/https://blog.valerieaurora.org/2018/10/14/double-union-is-dead-long-live-double-union/…
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New team has taken me to a remote place with many cats and a dog that is probably about to eat me and I guess this is the end. Officially we are doing a "cooking class".
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“Does anyone here know how to have fun?” @tcn33
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“Am I sick or am I jetlagged” a story in three naps 😴
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My latest in @QuartzAtWork
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💯 I hate manager READMEs http://elidedbranches.com/2018/11/i-hate-manager-readmes.html… /by @skamille
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Taxi driver is a leaver and believes the EU was a Nazi conspiracy oh my fucking god what is wrong with British people.
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Am I supposed to say something about 🐬 here?
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I am 💯 software princess 👑 with an army of adoring but independent and feisty raccoons
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One of these was a draft on change management in team turnarounds and involved me digging through the backlog of internal blog posts to find the one where I confessed my biggest mistake of 2017. Still hurts 😭
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Inspired by the video game I’m playing I have decided my world is full of gold bricks I get for doing small tasks that positively impact my life or space. Every time I earn 5 I get to earn 5 in the virtual world too.
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Was talking with a massage therapist who worked with several Bay Area sports teams about just how much effort pro athletes put into recovery. Been thinking about what recovery looks like for people whose work involves giving their minds, rather than their bodies, a beating.
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It was very challenging and I tried and failed MULTIPLE times.
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💜
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How much organizational dysfunction can be explained by “man uncomfortable with woman who challenged him”?
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This week @beaulebens
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Found like 5 new raccoons to follow on Instagram this morning and I hope this is an auspicious sign*. * I don’t believe in signs but when trying to navigate the healthcare system I have discovered you need to believe in... something.
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Finally solved a problem that has lasted for over two weeks with a 4 minute phone call. Please congratulate me ☎️ 😭
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Reading a book about change management and this line sums it all up: “Unmanaged transition makes change unmanageable” 💯💯💯
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Nothing says “nice dude” like not leaving someone alone until everyone agrees you are fine, actually. Oh wait...
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❣️Your bestie is with you wherever you go.🐶❣️ ❣️Check out for order: https://xonalono.com/products/pet-carrier-dog-front-chest-backpack… ❣️
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Thank you!
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Well this was my personal credit card. My Corp one has been only somewhat functional for six months because I can’t make a phone call.
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In 2016 (or maybe 2017?) I kept a list of everything I said “no” to and maybe I should bring that back in 2019. I have already said no to TWO things in January and even though I have some angst about that it feels empowering to make space to say YES to my own needs.
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Thinking about celebrating the pagan festival this year by which I mean take afk to play video games and cry. Am I doing this right?
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“Do crabs think that fish fly? Are raccoons sad because people think they are bandits?” My trainer with life’s existential questions.
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I love this, from @jyhsu
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“It's like a giant software development soap opera” ~@funkwit
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Redirect to a conversation about how much I fucking hate dolphins.
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I think some level of that is *healthy*, it’s what you do with it that counts 💜
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Ray (my trainer) giggling, “I fucking love raccoons... y’know if animals could talk I’d like to have a conversation with a raccoon.” 🦝
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SAME
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Important lessons in product design.
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✈️🇬🇧🏥😭
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big ups to my okcupid coffee date for knowing what really matters in life
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Today’s cab driver is the most Irish. He’s talking about 3-4 pints being a mild night out, horrified I haven’t been to my local pub, calling me a “grasshopper”, telling me what food to buy and I think possibly trying to set me up with his son.
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Oh wow, this is dead on but I’d never thought about it that way - What fear in leadership looks like – https://link.medium.com/0RYQqeoJRS /via @tsunamino
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You know that recommendation to take paracetamol before getting waxed? That, but codeine before getting a massage. We will see how this goes 😭
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Achieved two things at the airport pls validate me 😭
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Eventually the broken stair collapses on itself, and we can’t ignore it anymore.
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“If I fits... I AM DETERMINED! I FITS! I DO” https://x.com/raccooons/stat/raccooons/status/1074820309100957696…
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@juliaferraioli
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Oh my god this is amazing 💕
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Trainer: “we are going to work on a meal plan” Me: “last night I had a Xanax and some crepes for dinner so is this the kinda thing you will want to change or...?”
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2018 has been one of the most stressful and frankly miserable years of my life. I hope it was groundwork for better but who knows really, maybe the world will end soon anyway. The raccoon was the only purely positive thing so here we are together 💜🦝💜
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Mmm yeah I wonder. There is a bunch of research happening, I wonder if that is being looked at. (I have aphantasia)
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This is an admission of needing help 😭 Also I need a new speaker coach, if anyone has any recommendations.
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Omg those ears 😍🥰
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Omg so relatable 😭 I bought a bizarre amount of candy, detergent (even though I put a new bottle in the machine yesterday...) and 20 coat hangers. I did not buy girl supplies which now I think of it may be the one thing I will probably need but didn’t already have.
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Domestication continues to be depressing realization after depressing realization of things I need to buy. Like I’m pretty sure I need to buy a doorbell 🏠🔔😭
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@photomatt
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Bad Managers Talk, Good Managers Write https://buff.ly/XYgc8F /via @beaulebens
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I am so committed to trolling @elibud
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“Spending so much time inside the head of a woman so resolutely heterosexual when it is against her own best interests is against my religion.” Amazing - The Sexual Tension of HBO's My Brilliant Friend https://themuse.jezebel.com/are-you-going-to-fuck-your-brilliant-friend-or-what-1831171168…
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#mood
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Tbh I think the new locks are not as cool as the old locks. They are SO BIG! It seems less canal like somehow? Also they have to use rug boats!! But watching the size of the ships there is pretty epic...
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Was looking for resources for something today and I realized what I want is basically @techspeakdigest
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Ahahaha oh my god that sounds apt I have comparable retention to that 😂
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Big Plans today to play video games and not speak to anyone 👾😎
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Ahhh so glad I am not alone in this.
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It is an engineering wonder of the world 😍
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Omg yes this.
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All I am saying is if you haven’t seen a HUGE SHIP FULL OF CONTAINERS go through a lock bigger than you can imagine YOU HAVE NOT LIVED.
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I am confused, is he pointing out a feature or a bug?
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Gotta break in new sneakers but very committed to a chill day (yes these are robot pjs 🤖😎)
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Omg look what arrived from @skamille
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Working in tech, a story in 2 acts 😂😭🥰
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In a year of incessant disappointment, I’m pleased to report that owning a second teapot really was everything I hoped it would be.
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I think I am making Great Progress on Domestication but I do on some level wonder if I’m just moving things around rather than truly organizing or eliminating them 😭
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Really like this, on building alignment - Bridge Communication Gaps to Make Better Tradeoffs https://blog.coleadership.com/bridge-communication-gaps-to-make-better-tradeoffs/… /by @edmondlau
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I wonder if this is why I so badly want to experience a hallucination.
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Obvi money can be hard but credit is free. That stuff (coopting and building on our work WITHOUT CREDITING US) cut the deepest and I’m still pissed about that.
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I think I have a basis for a 2019 talk (built around this: https://qz.com/work/1468580/the-four-layers-of-communication-in-a-functional-team/… and this https://qz.com/work/1408428/the-first-two-questions-to-ask-when-your-team-is-struggling/…) but I guess I need a better title than "how to unfuck a team" also probably need to write a better abstract than "so everything is fucked? it's probably fixable."
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1. Met a raccoon 🦝 2. Survived (mostly) buying and renovating a house 🏠 with a fractured shoulder whilst navigating the Irish healthcare system 😭 3. Some stuff at work idk https://x.com/adamjk/status//adamjk/status/1075078948235599872…
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Please tell me I am not the only person who at the thought of the shops being shut for ONE DAY panic bought an assortment of random shit 😭
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Aha yeah and running four different teams and everything associated with that how have I survived 😭
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Capybaras are just so RESTFUL I love them (also they eat juicy green plants) 🌱 https://x.com/lauraehall/sta/lauraehall/status/1077980198472044544…
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Definitely was not a free choice for me. The only way I got to be part of an inclusive team was to manage one.
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“All changes, even the most longed for, have their melancholy; for what we leave behind is part of ourselves; we must die to one life before we can enter into another.” ~Anatole France
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Just so you know if you mention “Panama” to me you will launch the canal obsession function and it cannot be stopped. I am not sorry, the Panama Canal is fucking epic and people need to know.
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That’s it for now 🙃 much love to everyone who has allowed me to complain about this process. Renovations are so stressful!! But it’s finally coming together!
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I didn’t say that it just probably won’t be a saucepan of boiling water this time.
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Anyway, I get a lot of credit and I feel valued and respected and (mostly) LIKED which you know... as a woman in tech who is done taking shit is hard to find. It also gave me a very broad perspective; every day I see people I’ve worked with doing awesome things and that is cool.
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I learned a lot and proved to myself (and probably others?) I could effectively lead _any_ kind of engineering team, not just mobile. Meanwhile, the mobile team grew to ~40 people, kept improving and delivering. I was so proud of them but so sad not to be part of it 💔
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First time I have hung art since I left Canada !!!